Is My Baby Teething?

We love those gummy baby smiles, but just like midnight feedings they don’t last. While it can be a fussy and uncomfortable time for your baby, new teeth mean your child is preparing for solid foods and life beyond the newborn stage. 

Drool-soaked clothes? Sleepless nights? You’ve got this! Keep reading to learn about what you can expect when your baby starts teething and some ways to help your baby through the discomfort.

When do babies start teething?

little girl smiling

Some babies start teething early, around three months of age. But the average age that teething begins is six months. Keep in mind that each baby is unique and it’s completely normal for babies to teeth later than that. As a general rule, baby teeth start to emerge between 4–15 months. You can expect your toddler to have a full set of 20 primary teeth by age three.

Did you know that baby teeth emerge in a predictable pattern? Check out this order of appearance diagram from the American Dental Association to learn more.

How do you know when a baby is teething?

baby with toy in her mouth

If you’ve talked to other parents or read through online comment feeds, you know that teething signs and symptoms vary greatly. Some babies will hardly show any indication of teething while others will drool profusely, wake during the night, and be uncharacteristically fussy. There’s no way to predict how your newborn will take to teething, so just relax, trust the process, and know that it doesn’t last forever!

Here are the most common signs of teething:

  1. Trouble sleeping
  2. Irritability, fussiness, crankiness
  3. Change in or loss of appetite or a nursing strike
  4. Excessive drooling
  5. Biting and chewing more than usual
  6. Pulling on ears, rubbing chin and cheeks
  7. Swollen or inflamed gum tissue

Related articles:

Baby teething remedies

baby chewing on teething ring

Yes, there is something you can do! If you suspect your little one is working on some new teeth, try one of these remedies:

1. Apply cold and pressure

If your baby is gumming everything in sight (including the edge of the coffee table) offer them something cold to chew on. We love the simplicity of a clean finger, wet washcloth, or frozen washcloth for babies that aren’t yet eating solid foods. For babies who are just starting to explore food, a piece of frozen banana in a baby food feeder can offer relief. For older babies, popsicles, frozen smoothie pops, and frozen bananas on a stick can offer relief and distraction from the pain of teething.

2. Offer a teething toy or necklace

Save your board books and offer a teething ring or toy. We love the non-toxic, silicone options from Sweet Tooth. If you prefer a natural material, Calmies makes wonderful teethers from sustainably harvested, all-natural rubber. And as we’ve mentioned before on this blog, we love this all-natural wood teether from Palumba.

For older babies, an amber teething necklace is not only adorable but can also help sooth your babies gums. And don’t forget about teething necklaces for mom, there are tons of cute options  to fit your style and provide baby something to reach for when the need to chew arises. Check out the variety of teething necklace styles on Etsy.

3. Try a natural, herbal remedy like chamomile

Katie Wells of Wellness Mama recommends using chamomile to relax your baby’s nerves and soothe the pain of teething. You can make a weak chamomile tea, freeze it in an ice cube tray, and then offer baby a frozen chamomile cube wrapped in a washcloth or cloth bag. Be sure to secure the cube so that it doesn’t pose a choking hazard.

If you like using tinctures or essential oils, these can also be applied to the gums for a soothing effect. We’re not medical professionals or essential oil experts, so please do your own research and consult a trusted healthcare professional before using these products on your baby.

4. Over the counter pain relief options for teething

There are a number of topical products on the market that claim to soothe the gums and provide relief from teething pain. Infant pain relievers like acetaminophen (the active ingredient in Tylenol) or ibuprofen (the active ingredient in Motrin) are often recommended for teething babies. Do your own research and talk to a trusted healthcare professional before offering over-the-counter pain products to your baby.

More resources for teething and dental care:

small child brushing teeth


  1. Meaghan Barrera

    January 14, 2020 at 9:38 pm

    I thought every odd behavior or temper tantrum was due to teething. I was using that excuse for almost 8 months until my baby finally got his first tooth, haha!

  2. Whitney

    December 31, 2019 at 8:24 pm

    We had really good luck with a teething roller made with essential oils and then rubbed along the jawline. It made a huge difference for our little one!

  3. crystal. steinberg

    December 31, 2019 at 2:57 pm

    I’m always wondering! I had no idea that chin rubbing is a sign and this is something that my little man does often! He’s in the thick of molar break throughs as we speak, and yes his chin is totally red and irritated! Thanks for mentioning this!

  4. Sarah Huff

    December 12, 2019 at 7:31 pm

    I’m sending this to my best friend right now! Teething babies are so sad!

  5. Lori

    December 11, 2019 at 3:51 pm

    Teething can be so different from one child to the next; but we loved the necklaces and chilled teether toys for both kids.

  6. Jennifer Clark

    December 7, 2019 at 12:30 pm

    I am lucky that my baby was an easy teether. We loved the teething necklaces and frozen teether toys.

    1. Kathy Dittrich

      December 9, 2019 at 10:25 am

      Me too, I got lucky with my little guy. Teething barely phased him:-)

Leave a Reply